What would you do???
Maybe you have a good income to support the lakeside living; but its always wise to look at these situations as if you could lose your job or income next week or next year. Many people arent as fincancially secure as they want to believe and one single occurrence such as an unforseen job loss or some accident makes your finances a house of cards.
Best to you and good luck.
if you have a lawyer, they usually can give you the raw facts and figures, then you may need to talk to someone, family, church... or whatever, to help figure out what you want for you and the kid(s) ....
it's tough right now, but you need to get all the good advice you can
not sure if your soon to be EX is accommodating to being sure that kids get the high priority
I wish you all good luck